This issue has been discussed many times on these boards.
First, be aware that the really ABSURD gold spending users are very rare. Yeah, they can ruin a game by taking the extra queen to the chess board... but there are many moderate spenders which you can beat without gold, by better tactics, more online time, superior diplomacy, etc.
Second, this is a free game for many of us. That is only possible because of players like the guy you just met. Sure, he ruined your experience, but ONLY on this one map. He also created the huge amount of games that are challenging and rewarding to all involved... because he paid Bytro, they are able to rent servers, pay programmers, pay taxes, and all those other expenses running a game like this has. So we should really be grateful to them. The best solution is to realize this, give him a thank you, archive the map and start a new one.
Finally, there are a few Bytro-sponsored events that are gold-free. They are very challenging environments where top players meet and fight without using gold; however does that knowingly just gets banned. There are currently two events running, the Player's League which is more or less continuously (Call of War Players League), and a current event "World in chaos" (CoW EN Community Event: World in Chaos).
Many of us have asked Bytro to introduce games with a one-time registration fee and without further gold use, but they have refused this so far. Thanks for your message, it may be one more drop in the bucket for them to reevaluate their policy in this respect.


