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Gender Specific Messages
I recently won a game and received what was meant to be a very nice congratulations message. However it did not make me feel good.
Why?
Because throughout the message it assumed I was male.
In my view these messages should either be gender neutral or there should be a male and a female version of the message. To assume that anyone winning a game is male I find a bit insulting. I realise this was not the intention.
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Is it Sir McSquiggles? Or... is it actually your alternate form for when you swing the banhammer on those who might use profanity in the chat. A bit of Yin to your Yang
Then tell me, how is having a penis and a vagina psychological? And I forgot that hormones and body build is just in our minds. And we shouldn't forget that male chromosomes and a vagina is just imaginary. If you want to say stupid stuff, do it. But don't say wrong and stupid stuff. Ask someone who studied biology and more specific sex biology. Tell them, that they're only two sex. You will be laughed at.ShadowHawk5 wrote:
lololololololololololololololololololol Gneder spectrum=autism spectrum is what im getting out of this you are born either male or female there is no inbetween, its all psychological not biologicalHUNDMiau wrote:
I don't want to start how morally wrong this is, so I stay with science facts. The gender is a spectrum from male to female. There is not either male or female. It's a spectrum. Most are full male or full female, but quite a lot are intersex. Which means, they're are from a biological perspective neither completely male nor female. In the broadest sense anyone who differ from the "normal" body build can be seen as intersex.ShadowHawk5 wrote:
As for you Milstivi there is no such thing as transgender only 3 genders male, female and freak. You either have one Y and one X chromosome or 2 X chromosomes, unless of course you are missing a few. IF you are not a troll and truly changed you gender via surgery then you must cure yourself by drinking NaOCl you are just as bad as the kurdistan guy
Why this has so much fuss this thread? It makes no sense.
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"Alea iacta est" Gaius Julius Caesar.
Cos its the CoW forums lol..Caesar wrote:
Why this has so much fuss this thread? It makes no sense.
Off topic and fuss is our middle name
But I for some reason, like it 

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Cos its the CoW forums lol..Caesar wrote:
Why this has so much fuss this thread? It makes no sense.Off topic and fuss is our middle name
But I for some reason, like it

"I came, I saw, I conquered" Written in a report to Rome 47 B.C., after conquering Pharnaces at Zela in Asia Minor in just five days; as quoted in Life of Caesar by Plutarch; reported to have been inscribed on one of the decorated wagons in the Pontic triumph, in Lives of the Twelve Caesars, Julius, by Suetonius.
"Alea iacta est" Gaius Julius Caesar.
just in case the OP has frustration at the extent of off-topic replies in her thread, I wanted to reply to say the raised issue is known to staff and something we do think about. Indeed from the day you raised it in chatroom [which was noted in staff channel] we have thought about it.
As yet I have not seen any other female gamer in COW express the same opinion... if/when they do I will notice that too.
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Yes if I told someone "they're only two sex" I would be laughed at because that statement makes no sense grammatically.HUNDMiau wrote:
Then tell me, how is having a penis and a vagina psychological? And I forgot that hormones and body build is just in our minds. And we shouldn't forget that male chromosomes and a vagina is just imaginary. If you want to say stupid stuff, do it. But don't say wrong and stupid stuff. Ask someone who studied biology and more specific sex biology. Tell them, that they're only two sex. You will be laughed at.ShadowHawk5 wrote:
lololololololololololololololololololol Gneder spectrum=autism spectrum is what im getting out of this you are born either male or female there is no inbetween, its all psychological not biologicalHUNDMiau wrote:
I don't want to start how morally wrong this is, so I stay with science facts. The gender is a spectrum from male to female. There is not either male or female. It's a spectrum. Most are full male or full female, but quite a lot are intersex. Which means, they're are from a biological perspective neither completely male nor female. In the broadest sense anyone who differ from the "normal" body build can be seen as intersex.ShadowHawk5 wrote:
As for you Milstivi there is no such thing as transgender only 3 genders male, female and freak. You either have one Y and one X chromosome or 2 X chromosomes, unless of course you are missing a few. IF you are not a troll and truly changed you gender via surgery then you must cure yourself by drinking NaOCl you are just as bad as the kurdistan guy
Yep, me too.oceanhawk wrote:
Cos its the CoW forums lol..Caesar wrote:
Why this has so much fuss this thread? It makes no sense.Off topic and fuss is our middle name
But I for some reason, like it
Welp, i'm sorry, english is not my mother tongue. And please, forget about grammar and talk about contentShadowHawk5 wrote:
Yes if I told someone "they're only two sex" I would be laughed at because that statement makes no sense grammatically.HUNDMiau wrote:
Then tell me, how is having a penis and a vagina psychological? And I forgot that hormones and body build is just in our minds. And we shouldn't forget that male chromosomes and a vagina is just imaginary. If you want to say stupid stuff, do it. But don't say wrong and stupid stuff. Ask someone who studied biology and more specific sex biology. Tell them, that they're only two sex. You will be laughed at.ShadowHawk5 wrote:
lololololololololololololololololololol Gneder spectrum=autism spectrum is what im getting out of this you are born either male or female there is no inbetween, its all psychological not biologicalHUNDMiau wrote:
I don't want to start how morally wrong this is, so I stay with science facts. The gender is a spectrum from male to female. There is not either male or female. It's a spectrum. Most are full male or full female, but quite a lot are intersex. Which means, they're are from a biological perspective neither completely male nor female. In the broadest sense anyone who differ from the "normal" body build can be seen as intersex.ShadowHawk5 wrote:
As for you Milstivi there is no such thing as transgender only 3 genders male, female and freak. You either have one Y and one X chromosome or 2 X chromosomes, unless of course you are missing a few. IF you are not a troll and truly changed you gender via surgery then you must cure yourself by drinking NaOCl you are just as bad as the kurdistan guy
This pic is a good summary
It's just a game lol
OML! BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! JUST GET OVER IT! SOME GUY/GIRL ASSUMED yOU WERE A GUY! Also, STICK TO YOUR GENDER! Idiots
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Time to revive this thread. I have just gained first place in a world map. It took a long time, I doubt I was the most skilled player on the map, but I think I was the most determined. This is the message posted in the WH to congratulate me.
Much too long have hunger and war reigned. Much too long have amateurish and self-obsessed leaders suppressed their people. This morning things have happened that will change the world for ever.
BusyLizzy gained a long lasting victory in his struggles for control! His unbeaten military skills as well as his great political influences and superior economical management were the key to this inevitable victory.
In every single town people are on the streets, cheering and shouting, lying in each others arms as they know, better times have begun.
In the name of the WH and the peoples of the world: Thank you BusyLizzy!
Sorry, but this just does not sit well with me. I'm not a man, I don't want to be a man. Can this message be made gender neutral please?
I know I have brought this matter up before, but as nothing was done I assume it is thought to be unimportant. I enjoy playing this game, but things like this really spoil it. Surely it can be corrected.
Lizzy
im just wondering if the op was trying to gain attention to the fact that he won a game, or that she is a woman, or that he won he game as a woman, or he beat some men at the game?
Also, let me point out that there are more messages that refer to players in the masculine, so changing anything will mean changing all those messages. And, there was a forum message from staff that said they would look into changing messages like the one in question if even one more female spoke out. Reading the forum, I have found no other complaints.
I have empathy to a very slight degree for the op, but it is tempered by common sense.Why should a videogame step into this great gender debate? Would it not make more sense for the staff to spend their time/resources on bug fixes and other projects to make the game more enjoyable for the whole community, rather than cater to one lone whiner?
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Genghis Khan
Perhaps due to a large audience when anything is programmed it should be considered, for the benefit of keeping players. A simple if statement when a game is won If(Profile gender=Female, Message 1 ,else message 2). If the 1st two 22 player maps I played are any indication, we only keep around 10% of the people who try it. If it turned out to be an easy fix, why would you want to have another dissatisfied customer, especially one who stuck it out this long? Killing AI's all game is boring.
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cuz peter, not everyone discloses their personal info, nor does everyone who plays the game participate in the forum.
otherwise, i'd agree wit cha
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Genghis Khan
As i said, previously noted by staff. op is the only one with a problem.Field Marshal Dan wrote:
just in case the OP has frustration at the extent of off-topic replies in her thread, I wanted to reply to say the raised issue is known to staff and something we do think about. Indeed from the day you raised it in chatroom [which was noted in staff channel] we have thought about it.As yet I have not seen any other female gamer in COW express the same opinion... if/when they do I will notice that too.
(this post was "liked" by Mcsquiggles, btw)
Should male video game players demand that an option be made in Tomb Raider so they may play as a male?
Please, staff, spend your time on the community, not an individual. "The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few...or the one." - Spock
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Genghis Khan
So I am a whiner, thanks at least I know where I stand. I am not trying to draw attention to myself at all, I am just pointing out that I found the message disrespectful. If I had agreed to play as a man then fair enough, but that was not the case. Maybe nobody else has spoken out, they just disappeared. I am not one to suffer in silence. I am fast getting the impression I am really not welcome here by some. Maybe it is time to go.
I am about as unsympathetic to proposed changes to the English language for reasons of political correctness as you can imagine, and I will never support the "xe" nonsense proposed by some social-engineering whackos. That said, I see the issue raised by Lizzy as one of an entirely different character; it is one of basic courtesy. The problem here is one of uniform computer programming, and the issue is easily resolved with better programming. It would be relatively easy to add a layer of programming that recognizes all players as male or female, based on the players having ticked a gender box (please, let's just keep it to two genders: male or female) on their player profile. All generic, automatically generated messages could then be tailored with the appropriate gender-specific pronouns in English or any other language. This is not exactly rocket surgery, as it is done every day in a variety of business and social contexts across a wide variety of software platforms.
This may not be the highest priority for the game developers, but it should be added to their to-do list to be addressed in the future.