Since you didn't say, I'm assuming that your provinces are rebelling. To keep your provinces from rebelling you need to keep your province morale at 30 or higher. If your provinces are at 30, you need to be sure morale isn't falling.
You need to look at the province's morale factors to see what is causing the morale to be falling.
If you have a food shortage, you will have provinces rebelling all over. A food shortage morale factor varies by province.
If you have a resource shortage, it will also affect all your provinces.
If a province has a morale under 30, you can station troops there till the morale rises.
If you can capture a capital shortly before day change, it will boost morale in all your provinces by 10.
Check the forum for morale topics. There are a lot of good suggestions.